Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Are all men the same?

i have never seen my dad get my mom a present without her asking for something,my borther always asks me to get his girlfriends prestents, %26amp;now my boyfriend who is following the same path. im trying to tell him that its not the gift itself that matters to me at all, but the thought that goes into it. i just want something thoughtfull, i dont care if he found it on the street, but he keeps telling me he doesnt know what to give me. ive given him so many hints and even told him a few things i thought would be thoughtful and he is still having trouble. i told him i can buy shoes and clothes myself, and i wanted him to give me something special that has meaning behind it. weve been together for 2 and a half years,why is it so hard for him to think of something special?he wrote me a poem a few monhts ago for my birthday and never gave it to me,its in his computer, so i told him for the holidays to print it out and frame it for me, and he said thats not agift because i already told him. help

Are all men the same?
he is afraid of rejection. thank him for being there for you. men have trouble giving gifts but they will always do something for you if they don't get distracted first. love him for who he is and not for what you want him to be.
Reply:Not all men are the same but close lol


this year write a wishlist out and when you have got something on it cross it off send your guy a copy of it every couple of months one in email the other in snail mail each time you see something else you would like add it to this


so when it comes to your birthday etc he already as a heads up on what you want also he as some ideas on what he could get you when he feels he just wants you to know how much he loves you with out it being a special occasion
Reply:Once in a while you may find a man that has some romance in him. But you need to remember if hes romantic.. hes prolly lacking somewhere else. There is no perfect man. Just like there is no perfect woman. Some men and or woman are better at some things than at others. What you need to do is decided what factors or most important and let the rest go. Is it more important that he loves you unconditionally or that he romances you out of your mind... you need to decide.
Reply:some of them have better hair
Reply:There are many ways to express love and affection. And giving gifts is only one of the ways.





I think you should let your boyfriend express his love for you in his own way.





If it's not the gift that matters but the thought behind it. Then try to understand that the thought behind the gift is 'love'. And love doesn't have to be tied to giving gifts. There are many better ways to express love than buying and giving a gift.





A simple hug would express love a lot better than hours of searching for some expensive gift that looks nice but is of no practical use to anyone.
Reply:Are all women the same?
Reply:78% of men are all the same.



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