Is it wise to have sexual relations with your boss?It doesn't get any special award or even better pay.?

I take care of an elderly man who is seventy three and he is a widower.He is like a fifty year old pysically but he expects sexual activities in order for me to remain in the household.I get free room and board for cooking, cleaning, etc. but he doesn't pay additionally.Is that fair?I'm not a goody two shoes or anything either people.Just need help!

Is it wise to have sexual relations with your boss?It doesn't get any special award or even better pay.?
Are you only there because you have no where else to go? If that is the case start planning to day on moving into a shelter if need be. They will help you get a job there. I see you say you aer no goody two shoes but your mental and physical health is at stake. He is trading you a place to stay for cleaning, cooking and sex. Men have been manipulating women like this for centuries. I think you will become depressed at your trapped state. Consider getting out soon. You will be happier away from the pressure of having sex with him and a job that pays money so you can decide how to spend it.
Reply:It's okey as long as both of you enjoyed, no pressures from any body but voluntarily done and both of you agreed without conditonal whatsoever commitments or payments in return.
Reply:if he is physically able to have sex with you he doesn't need a caregiver.are you a caregiver or a ho'.
Reply:He is treating you like a slave and expecting you to have sex with him is just plain dirty! There are better ways to care for people out there where you will get paid a decent wage, he is ripping you off just giving you a roof over your head but no money to spend and look after yourself, how are you ever going to save money for your future if you do not get a wage??I would get out of this situation and get a decent job and find somewhere to live, can you stay with someone until you are on your feet? No roof over your head is worth being degraded for!
Reply:no
Reply:can u get a better job search and u will find one, hes manipulative, pls find another job before he dies on top of u
Reply:I would find another job. Seems as though its not a fair job. Hes trying to take advantage of you I think. Will only end all terribly wrong.. Seems terribly wrong just thinking about it. Look for another job is what I think.





Good Luck
Reply:Look elsewhere.If your willing to give sex.You may has well get paid for it.
Reply:I thought ANNA NICOLE SMITH was dead!!!!!!!!
Reply:of course is not wise ... unless you dont mind to change jobs when you breakup with him ...
Reply:well if your a prostitute then not getting paid isn't fair.
Reply:LOL, boy, you guys just don't get it, she likes it!!, so honey, get a share of his property and have a good time.
Reply:he's taking advantage of you. move out. it's pretty sick that you're being treat like some sort of sex toy and you're allowing this to happen.





get a different job. i know it's not easy, but it's common sense that you should at least have some respect for yourself.
Reply:its just up to you if you like this kind of realationship with him,ok do it but if you feel it may hurt your dignity, avoid it
Reply:well are you enjoying it for a start if you are go for it, if you doing it for favours and you not enjoying or getting favours well play with yourself who needs him
Reply:Tell him to put you in his will. Once he does, then f**k the s**t out of him till he croaks.
Reply:This is called sexual harassment and is illegal. If you were placed there by an agency, you need to report it to them.
Reply:No it doesn't just fun at work.
Reply:stay away form your boss it will only come back to bite you
Reply:no way - this guy is sick, you're not his wife, you're a care giver and that does not include sexual favours, you should find someone else to take care of and report this disgusting old man
Reply:Thats your wish.


If u think money is the matter of concern for induclging in sex with him. straight away ask the extrabucks along with other facilities.





if u think else, then decide to leave the job try elsewhere.





i suggest, (if u not married) dont go for stright sx. make him orgasm without intercourse.





all the best
Reply:thats all up to you me no way get a new job
Reply:I'm concerned that you would appear to think it ok to do for payment! I don't know what you circumstances are but "sexual activities" should never be on any contract of employment, you should consider moving....Good luck
Reply:If you're gonna hook at least get the $$$ for it.
Reply:This it totally untrue, no one can ever force you to have sex for a job or even board. Don't give him anything you don't want to.
Reply:If you both benefit from the arrangement, why not! If that is what you want.
Reply:no and no
Reply:never a good idea to have sex with the boss.As the old addage goes" you don't **** where you eat!"
Reply:No, it is not wise. It is not wise for your mental health and well being. I dont mean to offend you in any way, but I am going to be very frank with you. Regardless of whether or not you are being compensated specifically for sexual activities, he's treating you like a prostitute. There are many other job opportunites you can explore where degrading activities arent a requirement for employment.
Reply:I would find another job ...
Reply:Yyuck- surprised you need to ask- whatever happened to your self esteem?


move on fast.



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